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In Memoriam

The community of Regis Jesuit remembers and prays for those among us who have passed away and offers condolences to their families. Prayers for the deceased are offered at school.
We make every effort to account accurately for the passing of any alumnus/a, student, faculty or staff member as well as that of any of their parents, spouses or siblings. If we are aware of other relationships the deceased had to members of our community, we do our best to list them as well. We sincerely regret any oversights or errors that may occur.

Memorial donations can be designated to support the education of future generations of young men and women at Regis Jesuit. If you make a memorial gift, the family will be notified of your donation and you will receive an acknowledgment. Please note that memorial gifts are not limited to those listed. Please click here to make a Memorial Gift.

First Friday Mass in  November is offered as a special Remembrance Mass honoring those in our community and their loved ones who have passed away in the preceding year. All are invited to attend.

The names on this page date back to June 2019 and are listed in descending order by the date they were posted.

Please contact us if you would like to submit an obituary for this page.

In Memoriam

List of 5 news stories.

  • Thomas Messenger '65

    Thomas Messenger '65, brother of Frank '60 (also deceased), passed away on March 26, 2026. 

    "Tom was born in Denver, Colorado, on October 31, 1947. He graduated from Regis High School and Colorado State University and later earned his master’s degree from the University of California, Berkeley. Tom spent the majority of his career with the Colorado State Health Department, where he served as Director of the Consumer Protection Division. Throughout his career, he was also actively involved with the National Food and Drug Association. Tom met Susan Nusbaum in early 1970, and they were married in 1971. Although Tom and Sue did not have children of their own, they were deeply admired and loved as parent figures by many children throughout the years, especially their many nieces and nephews. Both retired around 2000 and spent the next decade traveling, golfing, and enjoying time at their home in Montana. Tom lost Sue in 2010 after her fiercely fought battle with ovarian cancer. Family was the center of Tom’s life. After returning from California upon completing his studies, he and Sue moved in temporarily with his grandmother and great-grandmother. They soon realized how much joy their presence brought and chose to stay, especially as it became clear that their beloved Bertha needed care. Throughout the years, Tom and Sue generously dedicated themselves to looking after Bertha, and eventually, Tom’s mother as well. Tom provided Sue with unconditional love and support throughout her illness and continued to offer that same devotion to his mother during the remainder of her life. After the loss of both Sue and his mother, Tom chose to live his life as he knew they would have wanted him to. He continued to golf, travel, and spend as much time as possible in Montana. He was also deeply committed to keeping family bonds strong, maintaining close connections with his siblings through regular phone calls and shared meals whenever possible. Tom had a remarkable gift for making people feel special. He treasured his relationships and, without ever being overt, had a way of letting others know just how valued they were in his life. Those who knew Tom will forever remember his generosity, his steadfast love for family, and his gift for making others feel truly seen." Click here to view the full obituary.

    Services celebrating Tom's life will be held on Saturday, April 25 at 11:00 am at Horan & McConaty Mortuary (1091 S. Colorado Blvd., Denver, CO 80246), followed by a luncheon at Gallo Italian Supper Club and Bakery (3470 S. Broadway, Englewood, CO 80113).

    We join the prayers of the community of Regis Jesuit with yours for the repose of Tom's soul and the consolation of his family and all those who loved him. May he rest in peace.

  • Joan Irene Trembath

    Joan Irene Trembath, mother of Brian '86, passed away on April 6, 2026. 

    "Joan spent her early years in Goodland, Kansas, and Limon, Colorado, before moving to Denver after high school. She and George were married in 1966, and they spent the next 53 years living happily together in the Lakewood area. Joan gave birth to her son Brian the following year and became a devoted, loving mother who was always there with words of comfort and encouragement. She re-entered the workforce in 1984 as a teacher’s assistant at the elementary school level in Jefferson County, where she worked for the next 16 years. Joan was a caring and calming influence in the classroom. She had a unique ability to connect with young people, and they treasured their time with “Mrs. T”. After retiring from Jefferson County Schools, Joan spent countless hours working with Catholic Charities and St. Vincent de Paul to help those in need. It was also during this time that she became a proud grandmother. She relished the time she spent with her four grandchildren, and they brought her immense happiness and joy. Joan was a longtime parishioner of Notre Dame Catholic Church in Denver, where she volunteered her time and energy to countless school and church activities, while at the same time making treasured friendships that would last a lifetime. Joan will be missed by many. She was a humble, selfless person who touched more lives than she ever knew." Click here to view the full obituary.

    A Funeral Mass will be held on Thursday, April 16 at 11:00 am at St. Jude Catholic Church (9405 W. Florida Ave., Lakewood, CO 80232).
     
    Donations can be made to St. Vincent de Paul in care of Notre Dame Catholic Church (2190 Sheridan Ave., Denver, CO 80219). 

    We join the prayers of the community of Regis Jesuit with yours for the repose of Joan's soul and the consolation of her family and all those who loved her. May she rest in peace.

  • John Leer '05

    John Leer '05, brother of Molly '07, passed away on April 10, 2026. 

    A Funeral Mass will take place on Friday, April 24 at 11:00 am at St. Thomas More Catholic Church. 

    We join the prayers of the community of Regis Jesuit with yours for the repose of John's soul and the consolation of his family and all those who loved him. May he rest in peace.

  • Desiree Sanchez

    Desiree Sanchez, daughter of David '69, passed away recently. 

    We join the prayers of the community of Regis Jesuit with yours for the repose of Desiree's soul and the consolation of her family and all those who loved her. May she rest in peace.

  • Joseph "Joe" Conrad '67

    Joseph "Joe" Conrad '67 passed away on March 30, 2026. Click here to view the full obituary. 

    We join the prayers of the community of Regis Jesuit with yours for the repose of Joe's soul and the consolation of his family and all those who loved him. May he rest in peace.
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Eternal rest grant unto them, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon them. May the souls of the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen.

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